tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post7895980665246181444..comments2024-03-05T11:36:50.299-05:00Comments on Stand and Deliver: Mothers who have lost children to deathRixahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07908864785513937876noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-39348442456997277742011-07-28T00:39:02.555-04:002011-07-28T00:39:02.555-04:00I Lost a baby last September to a tubal pregnancy ...I Lost a baby last September to a tubal pregnancy n it was hard n stll is hard there isn't a day I dont tuiml bout my beautiful baby but honestly I'm jealous of the moms that have still births cuz at least they got to see their babies n hold them to know the babies sex I wish I could have had that but I was only 8 weeks along!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-87933139198608365082008-08-25T12:23:00.000-04:002008-08-25T12:23:00.000-04:00I am grieving from two miscarriages in a row from ...I am grieving from two miscarriages in a row from this summer. My heart is broken, and I have found so little solace. Yesterday, my husband and made the decision to have no more kids, as our life is getting ready to change in such a way that, to care best for the three we have, we can't fit in another. But it was a hard, painful decision for me.<BR/>Today, I am finally grieving for my lost babies. Today I can't hold off the hurt with a possibility of another to fill the big empty spot. And today thos post gave me some peace, some room to cry, and some room to hope. Thank you so very much.Pixie LaRougehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01270240055485984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-2929370357815957372008-08-20T18:29:00.000-04:002008-08-20T18:29:00.000-04:00This is a hard topic. I've always wondered how I w...This is a hard topic. I've always wondered how I would cope with the loss of a child; I think a stillbirth would be particularly hard--these babies are so real when we feel them kicking and squirming inside...I hope I never have to experience that, but I do believe faith would pull me through as it does with other challenges. Thanks for posting on your lesson.Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12409740378011990132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-66302388727314272802008-08-18T22:53:00.000-04:002008-08-18T22:53:00.000-04:00Thank you for sharing the interesting thoughts fro...Thank you for sharing the interesting thoughts from your lesson. Good mental food.Chouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11711969146276630261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-20354800023139368622008-08-18T19:35:00.000-04:002008-08-18T19:35:00.000-04:00We had that same lesson. It was a guest teacher, a...We had that same lesson. It was a guest teacher, and must have been inspired to ask her, because the lesson was so incredibly spiritual (which is rare in my ward). Even though I didn't relate to much, it was a beautiful lesson.<BR/><BR/>I have heard things from miscarrying mothers, I think they are close to the veil and in-tune to things. My mother has said that after one miscarrage, when she got pregnant afterward, she felt strongly that it was the same spirit coming back. Other moms will tell you that they know even though their pregnancy lasted only a few weeks, that this was definitely their child, and they will be with them in the resurrection.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20642800.post-33357837866322003242008-08-18T16:18:00.000-04:002008-08-18T16:18:00.000-04:00My dear friend had a full term loss and her son...My dear friend had a full term loss and her son's passing is honored each year. And I was present for the early third trimester stillbirth of a baby last summer - this family is expecting again this fall and I will be there.<BR/>I believe that for both of these women their faiths were incredibly helpful to them in being able to cope in the moment, heal and move forward. Both are involved with their church & synagogue...I am spiritual but not part of any religion & sort of envy the comfort it must bring.DoulaMommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17436946151898233317noreply@blogger.com