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Friday, August 14, 2020

American ??? day 3

11,978 steps 

I have a new computer! I'm still setting everything up but at least I have a whole screen now, instead of a measly little window in the corner.

I baked 4 large loaves of bread (using 2 kg of flour) and a double batch of dark chocolate mint cookies. The extra loaves are in the freezer and should last a week, I hope. Here in the States the only bread we have is disgusting industrial bread. We don't even have one proper bakery with anything resembling real bread. My kids won't eat store-bought bread over here and I totally don't blame them. I'm hoping that I can bake a huge batch of sourdough just once a week. 


I was in the "get things done" mood so I finally hung up Dio's birth quilt in our attic bedroom. I have to find wooden finials for the ends of the rod, but at least the quilt is on display! (Why did it take me so long??) As with Inga's birth quilt, I sent fabric out to friends and family members all over the world. Each person sent back a completed quilt square. I created the large square in the middle and put the whole thing together after Dio's birth. 


I bought myself this print for my birthday present. It's called "Guided By Stars" by Sue Ellen Parkinson. She wrote this about the painting: "It's of Eve, as a grandmother, titled, 'Guided By Stars.' She feels perfectly fine about eating her apple. She's even got an apple seed necklace and apple blossoms in her halo. The snake is her spirit animal and they've become friends." 

I found a super ugly framed artwork at a thrift store--ugly, but the right size. I spray painted the frame gold and the mat black...and it turned out okay. Not bad for a $3 frame. The painting is now hanging near my bed.


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Wednesday, May 20, 2020

French déconfinement day 10

10,718 steps

I was feeling despondent and unmotivated much of the day. I even curled up on the daybed and took a nap. So unlike me! I've been dealing with these feelings by reading.

I suppose reading is a fairly benign way of coping. Reading got me through those icky weeks of pregnancy nausea; I even immortalized coping-reading on Ivy's birth quilt.



We spent a few hours up at the chateau with several friends. Lots of Vitamin D therapy.


The kids started online piano lessons a few weeks ago with my mom. She's a Suzuki violin teacher but has also taken pedagogy classes for piano. She is thrilled that our children are finally learning music.

Music has been a huge part of my life since I was 5 years old. I was a violin performance major in college, until I realized that I wanted to study too many other things outside of music. And being a music major--the grades, the competition, the juried recitals--took the joy out of playing the violin. (Or maybe I was just afraid of not being the best and took the coward's way out...who knows!)
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Friday, March 27, 2015

Ivy is 2 years old! Happy birthday!

Happy birthday Ivy! We had a small family celebration two days ago...cake and candles and a birthday song. We're having a bigger party with lots of friends on Sunday. I know Ivy won't really care either way, but our other kids will love having a party.

Ivy had just licked the frosting off the candles...yum


Two different family members gave us money to buy pastries for Ivy's birthday present. Fantastic idea!

We went to Eze Bord de Mer today after school. Eric went spearfishing and had grand hopes, but he saw very few fish this time. He did catch one small fish that we'll eat tomorrow.




Zari made paper crowns for everyone this week.


The kids love to belt out "Let It Go"



Now for some Ivy updates:

She's waking up once a night to nurse, then is up for the day around 6:30 am. Doable. We've been staying in her room since January, since we've had guests almost nonstop. I'm looking forward to having my own room again!


Ivy has been out of diapers during the day for almost 2 weeks now. Hooray! I have packed the cloth diapers away and am considering selling them. Any takers for about 18 pocket diapers & soakers with snaps and FOE binding? Especially anyone in France? They have been used for 7 years but are still functional.

Her language skills continue to surprise and amaze me. The other day, Inga was (yet again) bothering Ivy, and Ivy said, "Mama, Inga hit me." Great. Now she has learned the skill of tattling. She loves to look for Smart cars; "Encore baby cars mama! Encore!"

Ivy loves looking for "pretty flowers" and putting on dresses to dance in. Actually all of our kids do, Dio included. I introduced them to Riverdance last night. It was a hit.



Catch-up time...

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Sunday, April 21, 2013

Ivy's birth quilt

Here's the finished quilt! I did most of the quilting carrying Ivy in a sling. She doesn't like being set down--which is fine and normal--but she is cozy and content as long as she's on someone's body. I'll probably hang it in Inga's bedroom, which will eventually become Ivy's room when she's big enough to sleep on her own. It looks even better in real life with all the quilting and textures and different fabrics.


The top has a hanging loop of rainbow fabric scraps left over from Zari's Halloween costume:


I finally embroidered the Prince of Wales Hotel onto the square of Waterton National Park in Alberta (month 2):




The back of the quilt is fun, too:



Zari has been asking for her own quilt, since I only started making birth quilts with Dio. So during my last month of Ivy's pregnancy, I started cutting out squares of fabric. We're doing a simple design in a gradual rainbow of colors, all made from leftover fabric scraps. The front is all sewn together now.


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Monday, April 15, 2013

Ivy's birth photos

I received 464 photos from the photographer and narrowed them down to 84. I just couldn't go any lower!

Looking through the photos was a surprisingly emotional experience for me--but not in the way I expected. I was flooded with a sense of sadness, knowing that this probably will be our last baby. The photos were the last part of the birth I was still waiting on, so when they arrived they brought with them a bittersweet sense of closure.

Yesterday we had a gathering with friends & colleagues from the university where we work. I also finished Ivy's birth quilt. The months of preparation and weeks of celebration are done. Now it's time to move forward. 

With a few exceptions, the photos are in chronological order. I love how the photographer captured what was going on all around the house: kids playing in the attic, birth assistants napping in the living room (they'd been up the night before at another birth), Eric making crepes after Ivy was born.

Before you view the pictures, look at:

For a full-screen slideshow, click on the image below (or click here).


Smaller slideshow here:


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Sunday, April 07, 2013

Quilt square: Breastfeeding

I wanted the last quilt square to reflect the final part of the birth cycle: nursing a baby. In that sense, it's not the end, but the beginning. Good thing, otherwise I might cry at the thought of endings!

The design is based on the International Breastfeeding Symbol. For the background, I used linen pieces left over from dyeing the ombré sling fabric. The appliqué is a thick ivory stretch cotton.


Squares 1-9 are already sewn together. After I attach the last three, the next step is putting all the layers together and then we're on to quilting! I'll probably do everything by machine; it's so much faster than by hand.
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Thursday, April 04, 2013

Quilt square: Birthday


I wanted a quilt square to represent the day Ivy was born. We'd just started seeing crocuses emerge, and then a huge blizzard hit. I used a piece of white fabric for the background that reminded me of branches covered with snow, then appliqued purple and yellow crocuses on top. I call it "Birthday."

Birth video coming tomorrow...I'm so excited to share it. I managed to edit it to 20 minutes total (down from almost 50 minutes of footage).



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Tuesday, April 02, 2013

Introducing...


We finally have a name!

Ivy Claire Freeze

Eric finally agreed this morning, somewhat reluctantly. Good thing he did, since my mom sent out official birth announcements--with the name--to her entire extended family last night.

Some names that almost made the final cut:
Raven
Brigitte (probably our overall 2nd choice, since my German grandma is named Brigitta, so it would have both German and French connections)
Gisèle (Eric's top choice, but I didn't care for this as much)
Adèle
Cécile
Indigo

We put Ivy's footprints on this quilt square, then I embroidered around the prints and washed the ink off. I have two more squares to make: one for her birth and one for the newborn stage.

If you're wondering how I did the letters, I printed the words, put the paper under the fabric, and drew the letters with a fabric marker. Then I sewed over the lines with a zig-zag stitch. I stretched the fabric in an embroidery hoop to keep it more stable while I sewed. The end result isn't as perfect as with an embroidery machine, but I'm okay with that.

Some pictures Zari took today:




And a few I took:



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Sunday, March 24, 2013

Pregnancy: Month 9


Thanks to everyone for sending your Blessingway beads & wishes! I had so many different kind of beads, from large pendants to tiny faceted stones to charms. Instead of trying to figure out how to attach them all to one necklace, I had another idea: turn them into a quilt square! I had an old formal dress made of wine velvet from my high school days (I usually don't hang onto things, but for some reason had never donated this one). Perfect for this project! I embroidered three "chains" out of silver thread and then attached the beads. And the best thing is that I can continue to add new beads when/if they arrive.

So, this square is named "Beads" in honor of my ninth month of pregnancy

The finished birth quilt will have 3 more squares on the bottom row for the birth & postpartum period, bringing it to a total of 12 (3 wide, 4 high). I sewed the 9 together already and might even start quilting them together with the batting & backing fabric. It's always easier to get things done before the baby's here.

I also put everyone's Blessingway cards & letters into this baby's memory book. Remember how my family usually does Christmas crafts? This year we made handmade books. It's a great way to spend the evenings once the kids are in bed. The adults get to talk while our hands keep busy. I made two memory books: a leather-bound Japanese stab binding book with multicolored paper for Inga, and a Coptic-bound book for this new baby.


Since I'll be putting pictures and cards in, I put inserts between each page to account for the extra bulk once the books are filled.


I've really enjoyed reading your words of encouragement and support as my labor draws nearer.



I was awake for a few hours early in the morning with very strong, but sporadic, contractions. I wondered if they'd turn into labor, but once I got up they fizzled out. I did have some clear mucous for the first time--the kind I've always seen when my labors began. So no action for the moment, but it's definitely drawing nearer.

My mom is in the area, helping another sister who lives an hour away pack & move cross-country. So she's ready to come as soon as I need her.
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Wednesday, March 06, 2013

Master bedroom tour

I've been in high gear getting house projects done before the baby arrives. Over Christmas break, we repainted the master bedroom. The "before" color was an awful gray/brown/olive green. It was really dark and drab, a non-color that sucked the life out of the room.

I wanted something really calm and soothing and fresh. I tried tons of greens, aiming for a shade that was not sage and not minty. Sherwin William's "Shagreen" ended up being the perfect color. It's even more vibrant in real life.

You can see into the master bathroom on the left. It has a large jacuzzi tub/shower, toilet, and sink.


I'm not necessarily set on using the duvet & curtains long-term. I made them when was desperate for something to cover the bed & windows (before we had blinds), and the fabric was discounted to only $2/yard. It's growing on me, though.

I love the light fixture. I bought the same one for our library downstairs. It used to be on Amazon for around $100, but I couldn't find it the last time I checked. The crib was $10 secondhand and has all of my birth supplies. You can see Dio's birth quilt on the antique rocking chair. I'm going to mount it in our upstairs hallway.


The birth pool will go along this large wall between the bedroom & closet doors. 


I bought an old frame at a thrift shop, took out the glass, and spray painted it white. A line of hooks across the top turned it into a necklace holder. The dresser is from an antique store in Iowa City, where I did my PhD. I bought the shalwar kameez and dupatta on Ebay years ago for $20. They're made of hand-embroidered silk. Back when I was an A-cup, I could just barely squeeze into the top. There's no way I can get into it now! It was a great Halloween costume or fun party outfit...


ps--I just found "before" pictures from the real estate listing.


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Monday, December 24, 2012

Pregnancy: Month 5

November was filled with breech-related activities: planning a vaginal breech and ECV workshop for next June, preparing my presentation "Connecting the Dots: The Future of Birth Advocacy," attending the 3rd International Breech Conference in D.C., and writing up summaries of the conference sessions.

In honor of breech babies and breech-friendly providers, I created this quilt block to represent my fifth month of pregnancy. It's the logo of the Coalition for Breech Birth and is simply named "Breech." 


I didn't have any cobalt blue fabric, but this deep purple linen was close enough to evoke the same feel.

I love the design of this logo. It captures the deep love and connection mothers have with their babies and the desire to protect and nurture their little ones, born or unborn. We have to keep this in mind when we talk about breech birth and about what options are "safe" or "acceptable."

~ Soapbox over ~

I hope you're having a wonderful time preparing for Christmas or whatever other holidays you celebrate. Our house smells of lebkuchen (German spice cookies) and caramelized onions (for tonight's French onion soup) and fresh paint (yes, I've been busy repainting before this baby arrives). We have a houseful of family and have more arriving on Wednesday.
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Sunday, December 02, 2012

Pregnancy: Month 1

I've been a looking for a different way to document this pregnancy. I've done weekly belly shots, a belly cast, maternity photos, and henna belly paintings. What else could I do to create a record? I can't say this with 100% certainty yet, but this baby might be our last. I've seen some fun ideas on Pinterest, but many of them are too doctored, too elaborate, or just not me.

I love what Baby Makin' Mama's been doing, but honestly if I tried to do anything resembling a fashion shoot, I would bust out laughing. Plus I'd run out of outfits after about 3 pictures:

from http://www.babymakingmachine.com/category/pregnancy

Cool idea, but I don't have a professional photographer to follow me around:

from blog.hannamac.com

I also didn't want to copycat someone else's ideas. So this Amazing Pregnancy Journal had to be free, realistic to accomplish, and meaningful to me--even if it wasn't professionally done or repinned a thousand times on Pinterest.

I've made birth quilts for both Dio and Inga, so I thought I'd continue that tradition and make a month-by-month pregnancy quilt. Each block represents something significant or memorable from that month of pregnancy. It will have nine blocks for the pregnancy plus three for the "fourth trimester" (and to be honest, 12 worked better than 9 to fit crib-size quilt dimensions).

So here's Month One. I call it "Head in the Clouds" because I had no idea I was pregnant at first. Between a likely early miscarriage and then a super light period (that probably wasn't a period after all), it took me a while to even think of taking a pregnancy test.

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Friday, November 09, 2012

Robin Lim: Heads Up! Breech Conference

Day 1: 
Robin Lim: Birth on the Edge

Robin Lim was last year’s recipient of the CNN Hero of the Year Award. Her presentation was a moving series of stories from her work in Indonesia and other countries. I've tried to type up as many as I can.


Women in Russia are coming to Bumi Sehat, the birth center in Bali Robin helped found, to have their babies. Hospitals in Russia separate women from their babies for 5 full days and nights before they are allowed contact. She spoke of a mother whose daughter was born in Russia with the 5-day routine separation, then who had her son at Bumi Sehat.

Robin started a SE Asia Waterbirth Association. She’s seen women traumatized by the tsunami get into a birth tub—their first voluntary contact with water since the tsunami. Balinese OBs have recently decided they will not do water births.The Bumi Sehat midwives have decided to make a stronger informed consent process and keep doing it, rather than cave to OB’s pressure. Private hospitals have 80-90% cesarean rates; public hospitals (for the poor) are up to 40% in many areas. Because of this, Bumi Sehat does VBACs every week, sometimes 2 per day.

She’s a citizen of the US and former resident of the state of Iowa, where it’s a felony to be a direct-entry midwife. There are 3 main groups in Iowa who choose home birth: Amish, Mennonite, and some transcendental meditation groups. These groups have had fatalities because they’ve chosen home birth but could not find a midwife, thus leading them to birth unassisted.

981 women die every day worldwide of complications of pregnancy and childbirth. Most die, ultimately, from poor nutrition. The leading cause of death in her island has become PPH, which she ties to the dietary change from brown rice to while rice. The main source of protein in Indonesia is tempeh (from soy, which is now all genetically modified). She’s seeing an increase in retained placentas and abnormal placental situations which she attributes to the GM soy. 

Do they do breech birth at Bumi Sehat? The official answer is “Are you kidding? It’s against the law.” In reality...well, they do quite a number of breeches. The midwives at Bumi Sehat believe that the family should make the decision of what happens, not the care providers. But they also have to walk the line so they can keep the clinic open.

Her sister died as a complication of her third pregnancy. No midwife would take her because of her large size. She was feeling very unwell, and her OB said to wait until her next visit. She died in her sleep. Her sister is on Ina May’s quilt.

We midwives know that love is a nutrient. How else could we take care of undernourished women and help them do so well? How did we in Bali get away with what we do? (Very delayed cord cutting  or lotus birth, etc.) How did the Dept. of Health allow this? Her friend Mary Kroger taught her to speak to doctors and the health department with love, not anger. She spoke about an OB who used to be hostile to her, but now who is a “reborn gentle birth guy.” He’s head of obstetrics at a big teaching hospital and has become a revolutionary in the birth world.


Her favorite breech story: 14 years ago, Robin was a new midwife. She had just fled to the Philippines after the political changeover in Indonesia. A woman randomly walked up to her door with a limp cord hanging out from her. The baby was transverse, and she could hear no heartbeat. Robin tried to turn the baby, and it flipped to footling breech. It was born pretty quickly, the flattest baby she’s ever seen. Robin started doing neonatal resuscitation. There was no heartbeat, no respiration, but she felt the baby was close by. The woman’s grandmother had told the pregnant mother that if she didn’t allow this baby to be born vaginally, the baby would not make it (The woman had had a cesarean section for her first baby due to breech, then 2 home births, then this one.) Robin continued to pray and do CPR. The mother was still standing; Robin finally had someone get the mother a stool so she could sit down. She said to the mother, “Joy, talk to your baby.” She reached down and stroked the baby’s cheek and says “Natsuki, even if you have to die, I love you.” Robin’s husband took the baby’s little foot and blew on them and gently, saying “Come be with us.” Right after this, the baby girl let out the biggest scream. This girl is now so smart that she’s fast-tracking through her science classes. The grandmother came in an hour after the birth. She held her granddaughter and adjusted something in the baby’s jaw. All of a sudden this baby, who wouldn’t nurse, latched on right away. This was Robin's first breech birth.

About 4 years ago, a mom came in for prenatal care. She was carrying a breech baby. They tried ECV, but quickly abandoned it because the heart tones went really crazy. The parents were adamantly against a cesarean; the father had had many dreams that if his wife had a cesarean, she’d die. The baby was born footling breech. The baby came out easily, but died 9 hours later. He had only 2 vessels in his cord. The mother came back 18 months later for her next birth and wanted her baby born in the same room with the same midwives.

Almost all of the 6 million voters for the CNN Hero of the Year finalists voted for Robin Lim. She got lots of votes from Russia, Japan, Australia, and of course Indonesia. Her son-in-law is a big grunge rocker in Indonesia and would promote her contest and breastfeeding before his concerts.
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Saturday, March 26, 2011

Blessingway flag

I've been sewing like crazy the past week or two. On top of about a dozen sling orders, I made myself two new slings--you can never have too many, right? One of my fun projects was creating this Blessingway flag for Gina, aka The Feminist Breeder. (I hope it arrived on time Gina!) I made it out of scraps from Inga's birth quilt.
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Wednesday, March 09, 2011

How did she fit in there?

This is how Inga used to fit inside of me, more or less. Both she and Dio loved to hang out ROT.
And lots of Inga photos because she's just too cute.
My favorite newborn shirt. It says "la tête dans les nuages" (head in the clouds).
On Dio's birth quilt.
Sucking her thumb for the first time
Nursing yesterday...and this was AFTER the engorgement was on its way down!
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